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We are Muslims and Jews who want to hear each
other's stories.
We are Arabs, Israelis, Americans, and people from other parts of the
world who
want to listen and learn about the "others."
We don't talk about politics. We don't discuss who is at fault or
where borders should be drawn. We simply tell our stories, one at each
meeting.
And we listen. With our hearts as well as our ears.
We listen because we believe that when we hear "their" stories - when we learn what
they've experienced and why they believe what they do - then we can see
them as fellow human beings deserving of the same respect and security
we wish for ourselves.
Compassionate listening is both our method and goal.
We listen compassionately to the person telling her
or his story. Where they were born, what it was like growing up, when
they first became aware of "the other side," how they've interacted or fought with them, what if anything
has changed them, and more.
We listen compassionately, neither interrupting nor criticizing
the speaker.
When the speaker has finished, we ask questions. We don't challenge
or attack, we simply ask questions to clarify or expand points of
interest.
And then the presentation is over.
We learn that we can sit down with the "other" in peace.
That "they" are humans, just like us, with hopes and
fears similar to ours.
That it's possible to listen to someone who disagrees with
you without becoming defensive, angry or argumentative.
And over time, as we get to know each other, we sometimes learn that
our opinions are not nearly as far apart as we though they were.
We invite you to open your ears and your heart at our
next meeting.
We invite you to learn about "them," and as you do so, to learn more
about yourself.
If you'd like, click on the "Who We Are" button on the upper left to
learn a little about some of our members. You can also click on "Jewish
and Muslim Stories" to read brief presentations of some of the stories
we've listened to.
If you'd like to come to our next meeting, send an e-mail to
Info@JewishMuslimDialogue.org letting us know you'd like to attend.
We'll contact you and give you the information you need.
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